Thursday, July 2, 2009

Real Men Wear Pink


It is hard to see myself getting old. I see more of the top of my scalp everyday when I brush my teeth and no matter what angle I look in the mirror the hair doesn't grow back. I am going bald. There is not much I can do about it, and that is ok.

What is more depressing and really heart breaking is seeing my parents get old. My mom was diagnosed with breast cancer 1 year ago today. I remember being 8 years old and practicing wrestling moves in our living room so I would do well in a tournament. I remember as a toddler my mom driving a bus and me sitting in a car seat right behind her. I remember my mom coaching my soccer teams when I was in elementary school and then reffing the games in high school. I remember my mom giving me ideas to ask girls on dates in high school because I was too afraid. I remember my mom writing me every week on my mission to the Philippines. My mom is amazing. It is difficult not being near her at this crucial time in her life, especially since she has always been there for me.

Right now my mom manages two pizza stores full-time. Most people would have a difficult time doing that, but she does it while being treated for breast cancer receiving chemo-therapy and radiation. I know sometimes it is hard but she has had a positive attitude and been an inspiration to me.

Today I bought 5 ties. One for me and each of my brothers that say "real men wear pink" and have the breast cancer ribbon in the tie pattern. We wear that in support of my mom and all that she is going through.

Mom, we love you!



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10 comments:

Megan said...

Love the ties! I'm glad your mom is doing so well. What a strong lady!

Kiirst said...

What an awesome post. Your mother truly is amazing! I'll keep her in my prayers.

Marcee said...

Here comes the tears... Very sweet comments about your mom! Love the ties! Hang in there, we will be praying for your family.

Michelle Ross said...

Your mom is amazing Kyle!

Mary said...

okay so ya made me cry! That pic was when Randy was about a year old and I just got into my size 7 pants and weighed 125 pounds. yeah those were the days! And yeah I was sucking my stomach in!!I wish I would have kept exercising more.That was really a sweet tribute. thanks! I love you guys too!

The Kammeyers said...

What a sweet tribute! Aaron's mom is in remission from breast cancer so I totally understand what you're all going through. Keep us posted!

Marcy said...

So glad you posted Kyle!

V4Brad said...

Embrace your baldness!

sam and kyrsten said...

hey i hope everything is going well with her! i know its a hard thing to deal with! good luck! hope the summer is going well for you guys.

Emily S said...

I'm so sorry your mom (and the rest of the family) has to go through this! I'm glad she has you guys and your ties to make her feel good.