With the bed and breakfast booked as well as the flights I went ahead with the plan. Many balk at the idea of heading so far to only spend that time alone. But being alone for me isn't lonely. A little self-reflection and quiet never hurt anybody, now did it?
The flight itself (as any mother with young ones can attest to) was glorious. I spent my first night close to the airport in Orlando. As I glanced through the hotel's binder left in my room, noting the lake my room overlooked was named, "Lake Michelle," that was all the assurance I needed that being away was okay.
I stayed up late reading (because I could) and slept in (because I could)--- but of course one doesn't ever sleep as late as they hope to when they have absolutely nothing forcing them out of bed the next morning. I refused to get out of bed before 8. Once 8 AM rolled around, I ordered room service-- Oatmeal-- it was the cheapest item on the menu and actually sounded good. I then headed down to the pool for some more reading. I was actually pretty content reading by the pool, but it wasn't long before I had to check out and get on the road to my beach destination.
When I checked in at the bed and breakfast the desk clerk asked who else would be joining me. "Just me!" I proudly responded. It took him aback a bit, but he didn't press the issue. I could tell he thought it was rather strange I was vacationing alone.
The room I was staying in was a little cottage behind the bed and breakfast I ate at each morning (9am sharp!) , which I actually preferred even though it was considered a step down from the suites in the bed and breakfast house. There was an outdoor pool, hot tub, and bikes and chairs all for us to enjoy on the beach. Being in the cottage was perfect and I enjoyed visiting with the other couples in the morning. I was definitely the least exciting vacationer of the bunch. Everyone was there to explore the history and sights. I was there to relax.
The cottage. Simple and clean. If the shower had better water pressure --or any pressure!-- I'd say the place was perfect. But I guess it needed to be missing something so I'd want to come home. :)

A different angle of the room. If you look closely, you can see my token package of oreos and mug with milk. It was my nightly ritual.
Even looking at this shot of the beach now makes me happy. :)

I spent my time journaling, reading (parenting books, novels and scriptures-- a delicious balance of reading material if you ask me), running along the beach ( I was training for my marathon at the time), going to a salon to fix a recent hair cut, and getting a troublesome knot out of my shoulder. After all that, there wasn't much time to do anything else besides eat and sleep! Really in my perfect world the haircut and knot would have been taken care of before the trip, but it simply didn't happen.
So, while I did have time, I seized the opportunity to make some appointments. The first massage I went to was a joke slash disaster. The masseuse claimed she was using an energy technique to release the knot. She would hold her hand on the painful area and announce, "It's gone now." To which I responded, "Um, no. My shoulder still really hurts. The knot is still there," "Well, I got it out on my end," she retorted and begrudgingly tried again.
(proof of the less than awesome cut I got that needed fixing. It was just a very blah length...and not quite what I was going for.)
So, while I did have time, I seized the opportunity to make some appointments. The first massage I went to was a joke slash disaster. The masseuse claimed she was using an energy technique to release the knot. She would hold her hand on the painful area and announce, "It's gone now." To which I responded, "Um, no. My shoulder still really hurts. The knot is still there," "Well, I got it out on my end," she retorted and begrudgingly tried again.
Needless to say, energy masseuse lady didn't help the knot and I went in search of a new masseuse.
Another event of the week was getting to watch the Ohio primary race (Super Tuesday!) . It seems like a lifetime ago that Romney was trying to clinch the nomination. My, how time has flown! Remember this? Crazy. I stayed up until 2 am when Alaska posted their results. I could finally go to sleep happy.

Nothing of note happened most of the week other than pure calm, relaxed bliss. I did run into an interesting character during lunch one afternoon. I sat down on a chair in the lounge area (Think Starbucks) to enjoy a quiet lunch at a cafe when a gentleman in his fifties (?) asked to sit on the couch next to me. I agreed. He was chatty so I put my book away and engaged in conversation. Turns out he was an author spending his time living at his parents place in St. Augustine. After enough converstation and it was absolutely obvious I was married (happily) I gauged that he was a decent, normal human being and felt it was safe to actually explain why I found myself in St. Augustine when he asked. (i don't make it a habit to announce I am traveling alone, that is just asking for problems). He found it fascinating I would vacation on the beach while my husband stayed at home and watched the kids. He was so proud of Kyle on behalf of the male species I thought the vein on his bald head would burst. Soon a wanderer friend of his traveling the country on his motorcycle living on pennies joined the conversation and we spoke of religion, politics, and philosophy. Once I decided I had enjoyed enough conversation for a week, the Author asked if I'd like a copy of his book. I opened my wallet to see if I had any cash and I actually happened to have a 20. "Wow," I said aloud. "I hardly ever have cash," The Author gasped and began a dialogue on how our meeting was fate. His book sold for 20 bucks. What a coincidence! Well, coincidence or not I went away from that conversation with a few thoughts.
Proof I met the author in person. Now if I could just sit down for a minute and read that book of his...
One, the world is full of interesting people. There are a lot of people who feel the need to travel the world to find themselves. If I was living in my folks' vacation home for an undetermined amount of time in St. Augustine, FL I think I would collapse for lack of progression. If I drove my motorcycle across the country living off friends and charity for food and entertainment meanwhile expecting to find myself, I don't think I ever would. While both of those two men were great conversationalists, open-minded and I'd say genuinely good people, I couldn't help but think about all that wasn't getting done because of their need to be "away from it all" for weeks at a time.
One can vacation for so long, you know?
I still haven't read the book from the guy. Maybe one day? It's called "Hitchhiking with Larry David."
Then it came time to bid farewell to St. Augustine and head to Orlando where I was actually going to meet up with someone! A dear friend of mine, Hannah, lives in Florida now while her husband is doing his residency in radiology in Gainesville. She joined me at TOFW and while there, she shared some exciting news --she was expecting! She kept apologizing for how "blah" she was acting. I just kept shaking my head in disbelief that she was so pleasant, despite being in those early icky stages of pregnancy.
The highlight of the stay with Hannah, of course aside from all of the wonderful, powerful speakers and staying up late chatting, was discovering that she loved Friendly's, too. Friendly's is a restaurant that has yet to make it's way west of the Mississippi. She and I both grew up on it, and hadn't eaten there in ages. When I told her about a nearby Friendly's the decision of where to eat for dinner that night was pretty easy.
It was really nice spending the weekend with her. She is a great example to me in so many ways-- her unfailing support to her husband over the years has been truly inspiring. Hannah and I met as undergrads and at one point were next door neighbors in Provo.
{Read here if you care to take a break for a crazy it's a small world story--- Hannah's husband's is Garrett Woodbury. Garrett's Mom and Dad were the sweet couple who took us under their wing when we were living in Savannah, Georgia when Kyle and I were first married. Dr. Woodbury was actually the one who told me I should take a pregnancy test when I thought I had a parasite. Hannah's mother-in-law and I actually endured the woes of pregnancy together for a spell that summer. Or rather I murmured and puked while she carried her baby gracefully. Yep, Garrett has a little brother not much older than Cade! Two years later Hannah and I were chatting outside of the relief society room and made the connection. Small, small world!}
Now Hannah and her husband have made it through Medical school and are in the middle of residency. She has been through a lot of moves, and change over the years but never complained. It doesn't take much to make her happy. And we all know living on a student's budget is only romantic for so long. Imagine stretching that out for double the time. And for more exciting news-- Hannah delivered their third daughter just last week. Pretty great.
It was a bummer to have to bid farewell to a great friend, but Hannah is one of those who first of all, blogs pretty regularly, so I feel like I know what's going on in her world. And second, whenever one of us gets to go to Friendly's we are sure to tell each other-- so that keeps us connected. But best of all, she's one of those friends that it doesn't matter how much time passes, we just pick up right where we left off.
Hannah reminded me what a blessing it is to live in Utah. She cracked me up by asking if I ever run into any church celebrities. Up to that point I couldn't think of a single experience except for maybe getting to see David Aruchuletta at Deseret Book, or watching Jimmer play basketball. On my flight home I noticed a couple of the TOFW speakers shared the plane with me, including Hilary Weeks. I was a stalker and had to snap a photo of her at the baggage claim to prove I was legit and texted it to Hannah. We had a good laugh.
Since then, it has happened a few times. I spotted Sheri Dew and her mom at Costco, Julie Beck was sitting in the row behind me at the Stadium of Fire.... you better believe I text Hannah every time it happens and we get a good laugh.
Well, suffice it to say, Bookend One was a success...mostly. From Orlando to St. Augustine, in St. Augustine and from St. Augustine to Orlando I would search along my route while driving for an antique shop to stop at. I was really excited at the prospect of getting to do this sans whiny children or grumpy husband (never, ever ask Kyle to stop by an antique store on a road trip!) EVERY SINGLE STORE I pulled up from my GPS was either closed for the day (who picks a random day in the middle of the week to be closed?!) or out of business (thanks un-awesome economy) . I tried and tried and TRIED (17 times to be exact) to find a single, solitary antique store to no avail. It was a bummer. Other than that though, no complaints. I'm sure Kyle was beyond thrilled that I didn't come home with "useless trinkets and knick knacks."
The highlight of the stay with Hannah, of course aside from all of the wonderful, powerful speakers and staying up late chatting, was discovering that she loved Friendly's, too. Friendly's is a restaurant that has yet to make it's way west of the Mississippi. She and I both grew up on it, and hadn't eaten there in ages. When I told her about a nearby Friendly's the decision of where to eat for dinner that night was pretty easy.
{I was conservative and went for the medium-sized Reese's Sundae. Back in the Day I could pack away the 5-scoop like nobody's business}
It was really nice spending the weekend with her. She is a great example to me in so many ways-- her unfailing support to her husband over the years has been truly inspiring. Hannah and I met as undergrads and at one point were next door neighbors in Provo.
{Read here if you care to take a break for a crazy it's a small world story--- Hannah's husband's is Garrett Woodbury. Garrett's Mom and Dad were the sweet couple who took us under their wing when we were living in Savannah, Georgia when Kyle and I were first married. Dr. Woodbury was actually the one who told me I should take a pregnancy test when I thought I had a parasite. Hannah's mother-in-law and I actually endured the woes of pregnancy together for a spell that summer. Or rather I murmured and puked while she carried her baby gracefully. Yep, Garrett has a little brother not much older than Cade! Two years later Hannah and I were chatting outside of the relief society room and made the connection. Small, small world!}
Now Hannah and her husband have made it through Medical school and are in the middle of residency. She has been through a lot of moves, and change over the years but never complained. It doesn't take much to make her happy. And we all know living on a student's budget is only romantic for so long. Imagine stretching that out for double the time. And for more exciting news-- Hannah delivered their third daughter just last week. Pretty great.
It was a bummer to have to bid farewell to a great friend, but Hannah is one of those who first of all, blogs pretty regularly, so I feel like I know what's going on in her world. And second, whenever one of us gets to go to Friendly's we are sure to tell each other-- so that keeps us connected. But best of all, she's one of those friends that it doesn't matter how much time passes, we just pick up right where we left off.
{Proof Hannah and I saw each other for REAL in person. After like years!}
Hannah reminded me what a blessing it is to live in Utah. She cracked me up by asking if I ever run into any church celebrities. Up to that point I couldn't think of a single experience except for maybe getting to see David Aruchuletta at Deseret Book, or watching Jimmer play basketball. On my flight home I noticed a couple of the TOFW speakers shared the plane with me, including Hilary Weeks. I was a stalker and had to snap a photo of her at the baggage claim to prove I was legit and texted it to Hannah. We had a good laugh.
{Hilary is the cute lady with the hat and boots.}
Since then, it has happened a few times. I spotted Sheri Dew and her mom at Costco, Julie Beck was sitting in the row behind me at the Stadium of Fire.... you better believe I text Hannah every time it happens and we get a good laugh.
I came home to a sparkling clean house and an awesome candy gram from the Kyle and the Kids. It was great to be back home.
{ I didn't get a chance to take a picture of it until two of of the candy bars mysteriously disappeared....hmmmm.}
{Disclaimer: no, you don't need to glasses or to clean the glasses you are wearing. All the pictures in this post were taken with my phone. They are terrible quality, but I am grateful to at least have something to break up the words and illustrate my trip.}



















